I am aware that this is a tired subject on this forum, but please hear me out.
Along with the disruptions to the normal school year due to Covid, my father had also died in March. His death had been very sudden- cancer. I tried my best to pull myself together but many days were simply passed staring at the wall.
I was losing motivation and concentration, and it only got worse after the second lockdown.
Then came August, and I thought I was beginning to do better mentally. But my health started to decline- just exercising for a half-hour was enough to make my head feel like it was about to combust, and I was in a constant state of lethargy and found it hard to concentrate for extended periods of time. I went to the GP, but he initially told me that it was likely due to the stress of VCE and my father’s death.
So it wasn’t until September (after I fainted during a bike ride) that I took a blood test, and the results indicated that I had severe iron deficiency anaemia. In all honesty, the condition itself wasn’t too bad (I couldn’t feel much anyways) but I did have to commit to regular visits to my doctor and the pathologist for injections and tests- visits that still continue now.
While school had only been in session for hardly two months prior to his death, I’d ranked first for all the SACs that we’d completed during that time. I was also the Highest Achiever in Year 11 and am a full-ride scholarship student at a private school- as such, although my school had been very accomodating this year given my circumstances, I am also aware that they probably had high hopes for me, as I had for myself. I don’t care that much about what my school thinks, but I‘ve severely disappointed myself this year. I know what I’m capable of, and this year, though through no fault of my own, I’ve failed myself. It’s a bitter feeling.
My initial results this year were fine by me; I was proud of them. But I am not proud of how I’d done for just about everything afterwards, and I know that I essentially flunked my exams. I know that VCE isn’t ‘everything’, but academia means a lot to me, especially now that I will probably need to support my mum in the future. I want her to retire early and so a good degree- a safe future- is my best bet.
I am now predicting an 80 ATAR (and only because the 3/4 subjects I did last year will carry the bulk of my aggregate) which isn’t bad by means, but far below the 93.00 I’d need for Commerce at Melb. More worryingly still, I might not even get a SS of above 25 in Methods. After March I’d hardly study at all and would teach myself everything the night before the Sac (I did the same for most all my subjects, but the difference being with the english and humanities subjects is that I had a good foundation in writing already as opposed to just... the problem solving skills you need to constantly practice for the maths and sciences).
I know SEAs and Access Melbourne may give me the adjusted selection rank that I’d need, but prereqs are non-negotiable.
At this point I’d need a miracle to pull a 93, but I don’t believe in miracles. I didn’t perform to that standard and there’s nothing I can do about that now except look to the future. So I am now wondering if I should repeat Year 12. I know almost everyone who repeats would say the same thing, but I am confident that I can do better a second time around; I am feeling better already both in terms of my health and mentally, so am fit to endure another year. Plus, given all I didn’t do this year, I’m hardly burned out at all.
I am also 17, the youngest in my 2020 class, and also younger than a handful of the 2021 cohort. So there’s no issue there.
However I’d also like to hear different opinions because I’m sure there are many other points of consideration that I’ve left out.
Thank you for reading and I’m sorry if this post was too long or if I posted it in the wrong section. Please have a good day.