I'm a big fan of the idea that, to be meaningful, achievements only have to be meaningful to you. Comparing with others, or for that matter with some ideal version of you, can sometimes be helpful in deciding things to try next - but it can also overshadow the things that you actually
have achieved. Whether it's overcoming your fears, or trying something new, or getting better at something you already do, or just living life: It doesn't matter what others think, but that it's meaningful to you.
Your achievements do sound meaningful to me. So well done

But more importantly, it sounds like they are meaningful to you, and that's great.
Also, tomorrow is 2 years with Erutepa. We met thanks to this forum, and he's the best thing that's ever happened to me. We're going out for a movie and dinner on Saturday to celebrate.
Congratulations. Enjoy

I wish you both all the best.